Traveling is exciting and fun but can be so hard on your body! And packing the right products when you only have so much space can be tricky. That's why I've interviewed Kansas City fashion model Darci Clark, the creator behind @mymmodelreality and mymodelreality.com, after her recent southwest road trip to find out what her favorite travel beauty products are that she recommends for any girl wanting to pack light and look her best.
The first half of 2018 hasn't been very travel-heavy for us -- which has been refreshing! I've been able to focus on decorating our apartment, working on business plans & budgets with B, and start recording what I enjoyed or disliked about our previous trips as I started our new joint Instagram account - @thepashenpassport.
1. Phone charger
So this one is a bit of a no-brainer, but I figured it's a must on the list! Both our phones take the same charger, and since they are our main (only) camera, having them nice and charged up while we travel is muy importante. An external battery may be worth looking into as well.2. Make-up Bag
I never want to risk my make up getting lost or damaged because it would be such a pain and expense to replace items when we land, so I keep my every-day make up essentials with me in my personal bag. This includes my Bio Oil, Purlisse foundation & Estee Lauder eyeshadow palette, toothbrush + toothpaste, extra hair ties & hairpins, and the all-important eye drops because contacts are so dang temperamental. I favor a clear cosmetic bag when I'm traveling just in case security wants to take a look at what's inside & it's easy for me to find what I want quickly, but my everyday bag is either my Jon Hart bag or my Estee Lauder cosmetic bag. Keep it small and minimal so it fits into your purse or carry on!
3. Book
I have a few favorites that often make it on my travels. The Witch of Blackbird Pond is a small paperback that has made it on my airplanes & road trips with me. As familiar as an old friend and such a convenient size! My other go-to is a book of logic puzzles or sudoku puzzles. Gives me something to concentrate on and I feel like that extra bit of brain exercise can't hurt.4. Cozy Sweater
I cannot stand being cold. My mom told me the horror story that was her 5-hour honeymoon flight to Hawaii from San Francisco and I vowed to never put myself through that. Hence, the ever-present cozy cardi.
The cold didn't keep us inside this weekend! Between a family dinner with one of our New York cousins and a church service that took too long to leave because we couldn't stop talking about all the craziness that is this week it feels like we barely saw the inside of our apartment. Because we were avoiding cabin fever, we took a drive through downtown Kansas City to 4 well-known murals all of which would be easy to get to from Main Street using the KC Streetcar.
We did these in a loop, starting and ending in the River Market. But the order doesn't matter!
Stop 1. 1720 Main St
Get ready for a hike up five flights of stairs and a lot of wind when you reach the top! This mural on top of the Barkley parking garage gets plenty of foot traffic (B and I had to wait for a pair of girls to finish up their photoshoot before I could take a few photos). Park on the street and then walk through the garage.
Stop 2. 3945 Main St
Nestled safely next to a parking lot, this Luv Midtown mural was easy to get to, park, and jump out for a few quick shots. Look for the Blind Tiger Bar (now closed) and you're nearly there!
Stop 3. Union Hill
This one took some searching, but if you look for Cafe Europa, you'll find this right around the corner. Again, parking was pretty easy around this bit of green space and we even took a drive through the historic Union Cemetary a few blocks away.
Stop 4. 1919 Baltimore
This famous KC mural once said "I'm so in Love" beneath the Kansas City and was the spot for newly married or engaged couples to snap some photos. It was, however, painted over last August by the original artist when the amount of traffic it received was deemed dangerous to pedestrians and drivers alike. You can read that news story here.
BONUS! If you're feeling adventurous, seek out 2616 Guinotte Ave in the East Bottoms. You'll also find the Local Pig and Urban Provisions in very close proximity.
B is a much more go-with-the-flow travel person than I am. Growing up, my Mom planned every detail of our family road trips. She had an expandable folder binder thing that held maps, sightseeing stops, coupons and gift cards for food stops, hotel reservations, and even the schedule of events. I'm not nearly that organized about everything, but I was stressing about Italy. Big time.
We were lucky that we had family in Florence to stay with initially, but since B & I joined them at the end of their Italian stay (they were moving on to Germany mid-July after living in Florence since early-June), we had 5 days without accommodations to plan for. 5 days that we had to do some major adulting and find lodging and figure out transportation and where we would eat and book day trips & tours and the list just goes on and on. B, of course, thought "when in Rome" and that we could just figure it out when we got there. I wanted a little more security and to at least know we would have a bed to sleep on!
My Aunt had booked their house in Florence through VRBO.com, part of the HomeAway family, and it was seamless. So when we were looking for our short stay in Rome I looked at AirBnB first because I had heard more about it and then I checked VRBO and the price differences were dramatic. I created a short list of properties that were located near what we wanted to experience in Rome, were less than $80 a night, and were either private rooms or private homes/apartments. The next day, two of the four properties had already been booked for our dates so then I was really nervous about finding a reasonably priced place that would have what we wanted - even if we would only be sleeping there. I was thrilled that this WayToStay gem was still available!
Our two-story flat in a recently renovated 1850s building in the center of Florence was booked by family for the month. We had everything you would need in a kitchen and surplus of bedrooms and bathrooms. The balcony was a plus and I loved the mix of antique and contemporary furniture and art throughout the entire apartment. You can see just how great our view from the living room was and what a neat residential area of Florence we were in, near the Piazza Beccaria.
The bathrooms were....different from what we are used to. Yep, we had to look up the purpose of a bidet. And shower doors, or lack of, made bathing a little challenging. Despite these quirks, they were still cute little bathrooms! One was purple (my favorite color), one was pink, and the one upstairs actually in our bedroom was blue.
The kitchen/dining room was really the showstopper of the apartment. With a huge dining table that everyone could sit at, it really was the gathering place if we were ever all in at the same time (rare). The kitchen was laid out like a galley kitchen, with the sink, dishwasher, fridge, counters and, yes, even the washing machine conveniently disguised as a lower cabinet, all along one wall. There was a fantastically huge buffet used to house all of the dishes & glasses on the opposite wall in the entryway. Having the washing machine in the kitchen was a new experience for us too.
The location and our little balcony were really my favorite parts of this apartment. That everything else was so nice was just the cherry on top! On the one evening we decided to stay in and make dinner for ourselves we stopped at a local grocery store and picked up a loaf of bread, grapes, a bottle of wine from the same class we had discovered on my birthday wine tour, some cheese, Italian sausage, olive oil, and honey (for the sweet tea he made for me that we kept in the fridge). B put together a light meal and we enjoyed an Italian evening together without the crowds. We could see the Piazzale Michelangelo on the hill in the distance, in windows across the way we could see families eating together (including one shirtless man who sat in the same chair at the table every night, always shirtless), the sunset was pretty and the temperature was mild. It was perfect.
No complaints about our Florence flat at all. We were 25-minute max walking distance to the tourist destinations such as the Duomo, Santa Croce, the Ponte Vecchio, Ufizzi Gallery, and even the train station. Our one and only snag was entirely our fault: we left without keys on the same day that my family headed to Venice for 3 days. Luckily, we were able to get in touch with the landlord who was able to send over a very friendly woman and her son to unlock the doors for us!
Having booked our home away from home in Rome myself I was excited and nervous, and Maurizio was so great to work with and very accommodating with our flexible arrival time. We stayed in touch via email the week before our check-in date and were very much in touch the day-of as B & I navigated the trains.
We walked the 40 minutes from the train station pulling our suitcases behind us, stopping for lunch and then to gawk as we passed Trajan's Column and the new World War 1 Memorial that neither B or I expected to see. I think the ancient Romans would be proud of their descendants for this particular construction. It was so strange to see the architecture that we had seen in art history books surrounded by modern cars and mopeds and people wearing what you expect to see people wearing today (ahem, not togas)! We thought of Rome as this ancient city - which it is! - but it is still very much a thriving metropolis of today's businesses and people and transportation that all just maneuver around and through ancient history.
Finally, we made it! And just look how amazing this place was! Walking into the apartment foyer you're first in a courtyard. The floors are sloped to the center to drain water when it rains because there isn't a roof over this part. Once inside the unit I first thought it was smaller than it had looked in pictures, but really that shouldn't have been surprising. It was still perfect and cute and epitomized where I thought I should stay on an Italian vacation. There were hidden storage cubbies and cabinets in the wall, bright tiled floors, and a perfectly tiny kitchenette well-stocked with cooking utensils if we were so inclined to cook (except for boiling water for tea, we weren't).
A set of French Doors opened up into the bedroom, and from there you could then proceed to the bathroom. It was small and modern and stocked with fresh towels and a hair dryer. The shower did run out of hot water quickly, but that just kept us on our toes! We didn't have the amenity of a washing machine in this unit, but we were only spending four days in Rome, unlike the 9 we had spent in Florence, so it wasn't such a big deal.
We were lucky that we had family in Florence to stay with initially, but since B & I joined them at the end of their Italian stay (they were moving on to Germany mid-July after living in Florence since early-June), we had 5 days without accommodations to plan for. 5 days that we had to do some major adulting and find lodging and figure out transportation and where we would eat and book day trips & tours and the list just goes on and on. B, of course, thought "when in Rome" and that we could just figure it out when we got there. I wanted a little more security and to at least know we would have a bed to sleep on!
My Aunt had booked their house in Florence through VRBO.com, part of the HomeAway family, and it was seamless. So when we were looking for our short stay in Rome I looked at AirBnB first because I had heard more about it and then I checked VRBO and the price differences were dramatic. I created a short list of properties that were located near what we wanted to experience in Rome, were less than $80 a night, and were either private rooms or private homes/apartments. The next day, two of the four properties had already been booked for our dates so then I was really nervous about finding a reasonably priced place that would have what we wanted - even if we would only be sleeping there. I was thrilled that this WayToStay gem was still available!
First Stop, Florence!
Our two-story flat in a recently renovated 1850s building in the center of Florence was booked by family for the month. We had everything you would need in a kitchen and surplus of bedrooms and bathrooms. The balcony was a plus and I loved the mix of antique and contemporary furniture and art throughout the entire apartment. You can see just how great our view from the living room was and what a neat residential area of Florence we were in, near the Piazza Beccaria.The bathrooms were....different from what we are used to. Yep, we had to look up the purpose of a bidet. And shower doors, or lack of, made bathing a little challenging. Despite these quirks, they were still cute little bathrooms! One was purple (my favorite color), one was pink, and the one upstairs actually in our bedroom was blue.
The kitchen/dining room was really the showstopper of the apartment. With a huge dining table that everyone could sit at, it really was the gathering place if we were ever all in at the same time (rare). The kitchen was laid out like a galley kitchen, with the sink, dishwasher, fridge, counters and, yes, even the washing machine conveniently disguised as a lower cabinet, all along one wall. There was a fantastically huge buffet used to house all of the dishes & glasses on the opposite wall in the entryway. Having the washing machine in the kitchen was a new experience for us too.
The location and our little balcony were really my favorite parts of this apartment. That everything else was so nice was just the cherry on top! On the one evening we decided to stay in and make dinner for ourselves we stopped at a local grocery store and picked up a loaf of bread, grapes, a bottle of wine from the same class we had discovered on my birthday wine tour, some cheese, Italian sausage, olive oil, and honey (for the sweet tea he made for me that we kept in the fridge). B put together a light meal and we enjoyed an Italian evening together without the crowds. We could see the Piazzale Michelangelo on the hill in the distance, in windows across the way we could see families eating together (including one shirtless man who sat in the same chair at the table every night, always shirtless), the sunset was pretty and the temperature was mild. It was perfect.No complaints about our Florence flat at all. We were 25-minute max walking distance to the tourist destinations such as the Duomo, Santa Croce, the Ponte Vecchio, Ufizzi Gallery, and even the train station. Our one and only snag was entirely our fault: we left without keys on the same day that my family headed to Venice for 3 days. Luckily, we were able to get in touch with the landlord who was able to send over a very friendly woman and her son to unlock the doors for us!
Next Stop, Rome!
Having booked our home away from home in Rome myself I was excited and nervous, and Maurizio was so great to work with and very accommodating with our flexible arrival time. We stayed in touch via email the week before our check-in date and were very much in touch the day-of as B & I navigated the trains.We walked the 40 minutes from the train station pulling our suitcases behind us, stopping for lunch and then to gawk as we passed Trajan's Column and the new World War 1 Memorial that neither B or I expected to see. I think the ancient Romans would be proud of their descendants for this particular construction. It was so strange to see the architecture that we had seen in art history books surrounded by modern cars and mopeds and people wearing what you expect to see people wearing today (ahem, not togas)! We thought of Rome as this ancient city - which it is! - but it is still very much a thriving metropolis of today's businesses and people and transportation that all just maneuver around and through ancient history.
Finally, we made it! And just look how amazing this place was! Walking into the apartment foyer you're first in a courtyard. The floors are sloped to the center to drain water when it rains because there isn't a roof over this part. Once inside the unit I first thought it was smaller than it had looked in pictures, but really that shouldn't have been surprising. It was still perfect and cute and epitomized where I thought I should stay on an Italian vacation. There were hidden storage cubbies and cabinets in the wall, bright tiled floors, and a perfectly tiny kitchenette well-stocked with cooking utensils if we were so inclined to cook (except for boiling water for tea, we weren't).
A set of French Doors opened up into the bedroom, and from there you could then proceed to the bathroom. It was small and modern and stocked with fresh towels and a hair dryer. The shower did run out of hot water quickly, but that just kept us on our toes! We didn't have the amenity of a washing machine in this unit, but we were only spending four days in Rome, unlike the 9 we had spent in Florence, so it wasn't such a big deal.
It was a first-floor unit and there was a fair bit of foot traffic that we could hear outside, but it was a calm stretch of neighborhood on the LAST STREET before the Roman Forum. No joke. Walking out our front door we saw this in the morning.
Overall, I would say I am extremely pleased with both bookings and would happily stay at either again -- especially since we've decided we've already started planning Italy Round 2. Regardless of where you stay in either city be prepared to walk. A lot. Trains are convenient and quick between cities, and buses aren't bad when you do truly need to get to the other side of town - but hold on to your purses and pockets!
What about you? Have you visited Italy and absolutely loved (or hated) your accomodations? Do you have anywhere you'd like to recommend for the future? Let me know!
What about you? Have you visited Italy and absolutely loved (or hated) your accomodations? Do you have anywhere you'd like to recommend for the future? Let me know!
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| photo from https://www.bellaitaliatour.com/tours/cinque-terre-by-boat-one-day-trip-from-pisa/ |
Have you ever wished for something so hard that, once it happens, you can’t believe it’s real? That’s how I feel about my upcoming trip to Italy. I haven't been overseas EVER and I can't wait! In just under a month I’ll check off the second-most anticipated destination on my travel to-do list (I'm keeping my top-of-the-bucket-list travel destination a secret). The only problem? The only thing B & I have booked for our first two-week international vacation is our flight.
That’s right. I have zero hotel reservations. We haven't booked train tickets, made reservations at the top tourist attractions, or settled on our must-dine restaurants & vineyards. And last minute panic mode is starting to set in. For all the Mediterranean dreaming I’ve been doing over the years, very little thought has gone into what I’ll actually see, do and eat while I’m there. Upside, I'm pretty much done packing already!
Here's where you can help! I'd love to hear your recommendations and travel experiences. We'll be in Florence for the first week & exploring northern Italy, and then heading south to fly out of Rome at the conclusion.
Exciting things happening now that Marriage Year One has drawn to a close. We have officially put down a deposit on our future home in Kansas City, MO and have new jobs starting January 2016!
It took a lot of searching to find our new apartment, and a lot of the lofts and historic buildings in the Power & Light and Crossroads districts of KCMO had appeal but we have settled in beautiful River Market.
It took a lot of searching to find our new apartment, and a lot of the lofts and historic buildings in the Power & Light and Crossroads districts of KCMO had appeal but we have settled in beautiful River Market.
In River Market we are a stone's throw from downtown, walking distance to the farmers' market and a variety of restaurants and entertainment, and across the street from this gorgeous park!
B and I have visited Kansas City for the past few years on different holidays and have just fallen in love with the city more and more each time. I even got to experience my first snow "dusting" last week! We've been considering moving from San Antonio for the past few months, but our trip up over Thanksgiving really sealed the deal for us.
For now, we're back in San Antonio coping with the craziness of packing up our apartment for our after Christmas move, planning Christmas celebrations at 4 different houses, and helping my parents move before Christmas.
Wish us luck!
Instead of trying to get the rest of the crazy California trip (including the boys getting stuck on the mountain and me waiting with my brother for 5 hours longer than originally planned) typed up, we made this video!
video music: Parachute by Chris Stapleton
My husband likes to adventure. He spent a week on the Guadalupe River with his best friend, two backpacks, and a canoe -- all of which you can read about here. Our most recent escapade involved 30 hours in a car to reach Mt. Shasta outside Redding, California. The car made the trip, barely!
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Day 1
Our first full day in California we spent at Lassen State Park hiking to 10,000 feet. We had to take quite a few breather stops as our Texan lungs adjusted to the altitude, but the view at the top as so worth it! We forgot to take a picture at the peak, so we snapped this one on the way back down the mountain.
We don't know who the genius is that put this here, but our car had a great laugh about it.
Day 2
Sunday afternoon we headed to Chico, CA to visit the Sierra Nevada Brewery.
We were able to jump onto a last-minute tour, and the boys enjoyed free tasters. Lucky me, I had forgotten my ID so no beer for me!
Day 3
And now we've come to the point of our trip to Cali: to climb Mt. Shastsa. Mt. Shasta is a 14,000 snowy-icy climb during the spring and a rocky-sandy climb during off-season. After a stop in Shasta City to rent helmets and grab breakfast, we drove the Pontiac down a long gravelly dirt road. Before we reached the trailhead, we managed to navigate through two sandy stretches, but not the third. Which meant that R & B had to walk the final mile to the trailhead. No worries! They made it. Here's the photo from their base camp:
So while the two of them froze during their night on the mountain, I stayed in Redding with my brother for a night of dinner and movies.
Day 4
We were set to pick up B and R at 4pm at the stretch of sandy road I had left them on. That meant I had most of a day to spend with my brother. He's interning at the Stirring, so an afternoon of coffee for me!
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This post is getting too long, so look out for California Road Trip part 2!
These two set off for the headwaters in Hunt, TX at 5 am on July 21st. They were armed with a cooler of ice that would melt into potable water, a fishing pole, two hiking packs, easy-to-eat food, and one cell phone that could not turn off. We prayed the battery would last the week they estimated it would take to reach Seguin, TX.
They put in right after sunrise, and I drove the lonely hour back home fighting sleep so that I would make it to work on time. These are my favorite photos from their sendoff.
